Transitioning to college life itself can be stressful and overwhelming, especially when it comes to being virtual. Although classes are very important to your college career, it is not the only part of college. Student life and involvement can still happen remotely. Becoming involved in clubs, organizations, jobs, athletics, etc., within Isenberg and UMass can create pathways to new friendships and lasting connections. These parts of college may look slightly different than usual being virtual, but once you get into the groove, it will definitely enhance your time at UMass as a whole.
I asked some executive-board members from WiB their advice and tips on staying connected with others remotely:
Emily Harding, ‘23
Joining multiple clubs my freshman year really helped me form friendships with people who share the same interests, and find my place at UMass. Although we can not meet in person with others, still make it a goal to immerse yourself in the UMass community! I suggest joining at least two clubs you find interesting, and find ways to become involved besides just attending general body meetings (such as joining a committee, attending a virtual social event, etc.). Taking that extra step will help you become recognized and get connected with leaders of the club, and other members! These events will also give you something to look forward to each week throughout the semester, and make online learning a little more exciting.
Mikaela Bowler, ‘21
Class group chats are good for more than just studying! I’m in a class called ‘Feminism and Environmental Justice’ which requires a lot of complex reading. I proposed that we students should have a place to chat, so someone made us a Discord server. We use it to talk about assignments, but more importantly, we check in with each other! The class is a mix of undergrad and grad students across a wide variety of majors; now I’m friends with people who I would’ve never met otherwise. A mini online community for a class can make work and socializing easier — win-win! If you’re nervous about speaking up, post the idea in Zoom chat or suggest it during a breakout room conversation first. Start small and let the group grow!
Tyler Spellman, ‘21
Another good way to stay connected in a fully virtual environment is to continue attending networking events! Firms are still looking to recruit and have completely adjusted their recruiting process according to the current times. The Chase Career Center is also still up in running! Schedule an appointment with a career coach to get your resume perfected and learn how to job search during this time. Although an internship seems out of reach right now, do not give up! Attend all the networking events that Isenberg provides and be open to working in a new way. After taking part in a 5 week virtual internship, I learned anything is possible.
Making new friends and forming your community in college can definitely be stressful especially when you cannot see everyone in-person, but becoming involved is a great way to get your foot through the door and open up new opportunities. Getting out of your comfort zone and diversifying your college experience will definitely come with its perks. Join clubs, stay avid on social media pages, and have fun! College is a completely customizable experience and you have control of it. Make it enjoyable and join those Zoom Calls!
